Thursday, 6 October 2011


It would have been my fifth wedding anniversary today, if I had still been with my husband that is.  Am I feeling sad? No.  Do I wish we were still together? God no, not a chance.  Do I think I will get married again one day? Highly unlikely.

Biggest mistake of my life? Maybe. But, if I hadn't gone down the path that I have,  I wouldn't be the person I am today.  The journey has made me a better person, a stronger person and this last 18 months I have found the real me.  And I am, by far, a much happier me.

To celebrate the day I went shopping,  Yes, a girls favourite past time.  I spent a fortune and I don't care because it is my money and I earned it.  The best part is not having to sneak all the bags in. I can just leave them all over my bedroom, living room, or any other room because there is no one there to question and accuse.  It feels absolutely great.


  1. Well done, Jayne, you have got through the pain and come out the other side - you can be "you" again. May you go from strength to strength.

  2. Hi Jayne, i agree with you, i too am no longer with my husband, and i have become stronger person being single. I just know that if i hadnt been with my ex i would have missed out on five wonderful events that happened the birth of my wonderful children. Enjoy you from now on.